NEUTRALIZING NARCISSISM

The Narcissist’s Web: Understanding the Supply Network

The intricate web of manipulation and control that fuels a narcissist’s ego

Mark Randall Havens
3 min readJan 17, 2023

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Unveiling the web of manipulation: understanding the intricacies of a narcissistic supply network. Photo by Stephen Mease on Unsplash.

In this article, we delve into the concept of a narcissistic supply network and how it is formed, maintained, and the consequences it has on those caught in it.

A narcissistic supply network is a complex web of individuals, relationships, and resources that a narcissist uses to sustain their inflated sense of self-importance. At the core of this network is the narcissist themselves, who requires constant validation, admiration, and attention to maintain their grandiose self-image.

The formation of a narcissistic supply network begins with the narcissist identifying potential sources of supply, which can include family members, friends, colleagues, romantic partners, and even strangers. These individuals are often chosen for their willingness to provide the narcissist with the emotional, financial, or social support they crave.

Once a source of supply is identified, the narcissist will begin to manipulate and control them, using tactics such as charm, flattery, and even manipulation. This can be done through subtle or overt means, but the goal is always the same: to keep the source of…

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Mark Randall Havens

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